Helping "tweens" navigate social networks
1. Set limits. What sites are acceptable or forbidden? Set time limits.
2. Guide their choices. Help your child use appropriate sites. Did you know Facebook requires users to be at least 13?
3. Stay connected. Check in on his online activity from time to time.
4. Keep talking. Ask questions often, such as who your child's online friends are and how many he has. Nobody has that many friends in real world. Make sure he isn't friends with strangers.
5. Warn against predators. Talk to your child about online dangers. Insisting he not give his address or try to meet up with someone he met online.
6. Watch for signs of cyberbullying . Encourage your child to come to you if he is harassed on line.
7. Be open, Instead of letting your vulnerable child disappear into his room with his own computer, maintain a family computer in the main living area
8. Discuss consequences. Young people may not understand how a mean comment can have serious consequences.
Top 15 traits found in healthy families
1. Communicates and listens
2. Affirms and supports one another
3. Teaches respect for others
4. Develops a sense of trust
5. Has a sense of play and humor
6. Exhibits a sense of shared responsibility
7. Teaches a sense of right and wrong
8. Has a strong sense of family in which rituals and traditions abound
9. Has a balance of interaction of members
10. Has a shared religious core
11. Respects the privacy of one another
12. Values service to others
13. Fosters family table time and conversation
14. Shared leisure time
15. Admits to and seeks help with problems
My name is Mrs. Helen Verity and I am the guidance counselor at the Upper Elementary School.This is my fourteenth year working in the North Hanover Township School District. I have a bachelors and masters degree in math and a masters degree in counseling. My husband and I are the proud parents of a daughter and two sons who attend Richard Stockton College, Montclair University, and The College of New Jersey. We also have a cat named Woowee. I enjoy running, reading, baking, skiing, traveling, spending time with my family and teaching 4th grade religious education at St. Andrew's Church in Jobstown
The goal of the counseling program is to help students succeed and have a positive school experience. This is done in partnership with the faculty, staff, parents and community. I also serve as the school Anti-Bullying specialist.